Children essays

Children essays Nowadays, the birth rate of many developed places is falling. Similarly, this phenomenon is found in Hong Kong. Many young married couples prefer not to have children in the first few years of their marriage. Even though they who choose to have children, prefer to have one only. By comparing with the order generation, having more than three children is not uncommon now. However, women married early and had children soon after marriage. Why is there such a great difference between the two generations? Is it economic structure changing? Is it concepts and values changing or social circumstances changing? I believe that all of above reasons caused that this phenomenon happened. The economic structure changing affects this phenomenon directly. Because the living standard in Hong Kong is very high, both of them have to work outside in order to afford renting a flat, the traveling expenses, the food, giving money to parents etc. In other words, being engaged in work, they do not have spare time and energy to take care of their children. Thus having children would be a great burden to them especially in the first few years, because they do not adapt taking care of other. Incidentally, whereas in the past, only men worked outside, women stayed at home to take care of their children. The concepts and values were changed form western culture. In these days, women realize their rights-freedom, so they prefer working outside to staying at home which is a close environment for them. Also, it is unfair for them. In addition, young couples now would like to have more freedom and enjoyment. As such, having children may deprive them of the time and space to live the way they like in a certain extent. On the contrary, they have to take up more responsibility and sacrifice their personal enjoyment like traveling, staying out late at night, and so on. Conversely, in the concepts and values of the older generation, it tends to think that it is the ...